Thursday, April 06, 2017

The great loneliness, the special loneliness

La epidemia de la soledad gay / The Epidemic of
Gay Loneliness
and this --
Gay Loneliness Is Real—but “Bitchy, Toxic” Culture Isn’t the Full Story - http://www.slate.com/…/gay_loneliness_is_real_but_toxic_gay…

QUOTES:

Whether we recognize it or not, our bodies bring the closet with us into adulthood.

This is how I spent my adolescence, too: being careful, slipping up, stressing out, overcompensating. Once, at a water park, one of my middle-school friends caught me staring at him as we waited for a slide. “Dude, did you just check me out?” he said. I managed to deflect—something like “Sorry, you’re not my type”—then I spent weeks afterward worried about what he was thinking about me. But he never brought it up. All the bullying took place in my head.


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